Category: Rambling
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Marriage Series: Catchphrases – “Don’t worry about it!”

My sole goal of this week’s marriage blog is simple: I want you to stop saying “Don’t worry about it!” Two weeks ago we began a new series entitled “Marital Catchphrases” in which we look at the random phrases we toss out almost flippantly to our spouses while potentially losing the meaning behind the words. The scripture for…
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Avoiding my spouse!

I was approached about 10 years ago by someone who wanted me to deal with her husband. The one-sided conversation went like this: “Can you help my husband out? I’ve got some personal problems going on. He keeps wanting to help me with my problems and I told him to leave me alone. It’s kinda…
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Marriage Series: Fight Club Part 3…Dig a pool

We began a series two weeks ago about fighting in marriage. If you missed the last two weeks, check out Fight Club Part 1: The first rule of Fight Club and Fight Club Part 2: Break it down. As we’ve continued to state: Healthy conflict is healthy for marriage. It’s a certainty when two imperfect people get together with their…
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Marriage Series: Fight Club Part 2…Break it down

We began a series last week about fighting in marriage. If you missed last week, check out Fight Club Part 1: The first rule of Fight Club. As stated last week, I believe in marriage and I believe conflict happens in marriage. But my philosophy about fighting in marriage is: Healthy conflict is healthy for marriage. It’s…
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Come down from the “Mountain”

After two days of running hills here in Omaha and praying over our next series at Kfirst…thoughts have been stirring. How beautiful on the mountains are the feet of the messenger who brings good news, the good news of peace and salvation, the news that the God of Israel reigns! Isaiah 52:7 Growing up in…
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New Marriage Series: Fight Club: Part 1…The first rule of Fight Club

The goal of this blog series is this: I want to be your “Mickey.” Please get Micky Mouse out of your head and see the man, the myth, the legend: Mickey Goldmill (yep…the trainer from Rocky). I want to train you to be the best fighter possible in your marriage. I’ve heard it said “Conflict is…
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Marriage Blog Series: Date Night Part 3 “Let’s get it on”

We started a new series with our weekly marriage blogs a few weeks ago. If you missed the last two posts, Date Night Part 1 “Elevator Talk” or Date Night Part 2 “In the Air Tonight” click on the links to get caught up. The essence of this series of blogs is to get couples to re-engage in…
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Crickets Chirping: The fading act of encouragement.
It’s the age-old sound that signifies one thing. Silence. And that, in and of itself, is a weird thought; we have a sound that is symbolic of silence. In my personal devos, I am trekking through the book of Acts. After reading thought the riot breaking out in Ephesus (Acts 19), I read a single…
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Marriage Blog Series: Date Night Part 2 “In the Air Tonight”

We started a new series with our weekly marriage blogs last week. If you missed last week’s post, Date Night Part 1 “Elevator Talk”, click on the link and get caught up. As stated, “Date nights” were always important to me and Anne before we were married. That was the starting point of our relationship…
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Date Night Part 1: “Elevator Talk”

At the recommendation of Anne, we are starting a new series with our weekly marriage blogs. “Date nights” were of such an extreme importance for most of us before we were married. It’s where we learned everything we needed to know about our spouse before we married them. The problem: we got married only to…