Category: Rambling
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It takes an Onesiphorus to reach the world
Thoughts from my devos to day…I thought I’d share some ramblings… I judge all names on how they would look on sports jerseys. I know it’s weird, but I follow that thought up with how the name sounds from an announcer calling out the name on a huge play during a game. I’m not sure…
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“Tone Deaf Marriage”
I’ve met both extremes. I had a friend in bible college who, at parties, we’d make sit at a keyboard while we sing random notes. Almost instantaneously, she’d play the exact note. No mistakes. She can pick out any tones, notes, and/or pitches and play or sing them. She’s very talented musically. I have another…
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Holding Your Spouse Captive
My mind goes to a childhood experience. On a family vacation to San Diego, we had taken a day to go across the border to Mexico. At a local flea market, I saw a pair of handcuffs and just had to have them. After a day of pleading with my dad and him haggling with…
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“Direct Deposit”
What an amazing day at Kfirst yesterday. Coming off a message on gratitude, I’m very thankful for an atmosphere of the Lord’s presence and a church community I get to share it with. I’m excited to “circle” this church in gratitude daily. One more thought about gratitude: Do we stop being thankful because we’ve taken…
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Sexual Atrophy
I use sticky notes quite a bit. I get ideas for this blog, and I’ll use them. There’s one that has been stuck to the surface of my desk for a month. It has two words at the top…one specifically that I haven’t been able to let go of. Atrophy. It was 2005 and I…
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Fragile?: Week 3 of developing a heathy marital stance on intimacy.
We head into week 3 of our series on sex. I’ll begin with a simple TRUTH: Sex is God’s wedding gift to us. Now I understand that doesn’t seem very mind-blowing. But with how much of a mockery the enemy has made intimacy, some within the church have steered away from the subject of sex.…
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Sex and Fruit: Week 2 of developing a heathy marital stance on intimacy.
Thanks for feedback in emails and Facebook! We had a great start with last weeks post regarding breaking the silence that keeps intimacy from growing. If you missed the post, check it out here: Sex Position: Developing a heathy marital stance on intimacy. A simple TRUTH to kick-start today’s blog: sex is important. Husbands and wives find…
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Stop being Swiss
The weekly marriage blog has been a thrill to do. In February, I’m going to focus the marriage blog on the subject of sex. Being Valentines month, it comes as an easy topic to discuss. Other than finances, it is still the biggest struggle points in marriage…but I’ll save the words for next week. From…
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New series coming to @kalamazoofirst (with video)!!!…and other essential links you need.
I’m wore out but still pumped from yesterday. The voice is a bit scratching and I had a sleepless night. I’ll admit I had a few nightmares…but my insomnia come from my mind already on the next message. The service was amazing and I am staring and Monday completely stoked for what God has in…
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Kissing Lessons
To quote Porthos in the “Three Musketeers,” he told D’Artagnan “The secret…is in the first kiss for in that first kiss a lasting impression is made. Right, ladies? If it is weak she’ll think you’re weak. If it is comical she’ll think you’re a clown. (…) And as a musketeer is never weak and only rarely a clown…